Don't try to be someone your not. Be specific. It will help them to better understand you as a person. Sit her on your lap with your hands under her so that you can touch her from the bottom of her body. Talk with your partner. Don't forget to add primer, and, after lips, put on a medium pink that's neither too light not too dark. A cell phone number is harder (but not impossible) to trace than a land line. When you're at the beach looking for a potential guy, you have to make yourself feel pretty and have the confidence to go up and talk to him. (Don't over do it with the makeup). If you're not ready just tell him. You are going to cut through the steps of saying hi, doing introductions, and talking about the weather, before asking him for his phone number. A sporty woman will be in the gym for example. Be honest. Do not cry or get upset around them if they do not like you. After all, in his profile he claimed to be looking for a relationship (and why would he be online unless he really wanted to meet someone?) What more do you need? This should trigger their jealous senses. Flowers: Girls like flowers because they are gentle and calm. Choose a welcoming photo not a mug shot. Keep in mind that texting should be used as a last resort to tell someone how you feel. What you are going to do is list your traits and the traits you desire in a mate. No matter who the guy is there is always a chance that you will lose him to her or get your heart broken or both, especially because he was with her first. Are they respectful, disdainful, interested, switched dating sites off? Tell her watch it when she is low and wants to smile. If she is more on the stronger side, give a nice tight hug.(But not squeezing to death hug). Yes, you will feel cheesy, and he might think so too, but if he's hot... Put on something girly, white jeans, some flats or boots and shocker heels; depends on what ones you're allowed to wear. Use the dating time to test out your mate's reactions to activities and pastimes that you enjoy.