Get to know lots of people in various contexts casually, with a view to a few core attributes and broadly compatible personalities. If she's feeling a little blue, this can be a caring pick-me-up that shows you love her smile. Think about how you would feel going out on a date with someone who seemed like a match, only to find out that he misrepresented himself on his profile. Being funny is innate, provided you trust your sense of humor to shine through. If they are too busy to date, they shouldn't be dating. Example: Say you give teddy bear to you girlfriend. Arguing about all the problems that led up to this will just hurt both of you. Go on regular dates, like the movies, the mall, restaurants or dancing (if your Christian faith(s) allow it). Something that feels awkward, or just doesn't seem right. Do fun things together. You'll be surprised at who you can meet and what that will lead to, says Avgitidis. So anyways, instead of writing stuff like I love walking on the beach and going on vacations and seeing movies, try something more specific like I like subtitled films that are boring as shit, walking on nude beaches and visiting huts in Africa that don't have TVs. Pull her hair a little bit: just tug on it, don't go crazy. Be more approachable. Don't let him know your motivation. If he finds talking annoying, leave him. And find of if the women who are there, are also your type. But then look away because you don't want to scare them off. You're not single. When he answers, ask him to defend his choice. Don't misrepresent yourself on your profile. If someone is interested in you, they'll not only take the free dating time, they'll make the time to see you, she says. And, I love your [item of clothing]. Be proud that you're being proactive in your search for love. And then I F'ing meet you and you're like let's go see some weird ass indie flick that's in Swahili (Holy crap, I spelled that word right on the first try?!!! But if you are just getting tired of the long distance and still want to make things work with your partner, there are other ways to handle that.